Monday, October 28, 2013

The perfect date




"I am missing you a lot today. I don’t know why." said A on the phone.

My heart felt heavy after listening to him. It had been almost 6 months since we met. We had got engaged 7 months ago. After the engagement we had only met once in our hometown. I am working in Hyderabad and he in Bangalore. We had planned to meet again for my birthday, but my father in law met with an accident and had a fracture. He was advised bed rest for 3 months, so the plan got cancelled.. After this incident, we just had to be satisfied with phone calls and occasional Skype calls. I was dying to meet him.

I felt tears in my eyes, when I heard his tired and helpless voice. He could not leave Bangalore to come and meet me because his father needed him. After talking with him for a few minutes, I disconnected the call as it was dinner time. After dinner I went to my room and sat thinking. A plan was forming in my mind. I opened my laptop and checked the flight information to Bangalore for Friday. There was a flight leaving to Bangalore at 3:00 PM. Without thinking any further, I booked the ticket. I felt elated. I was planning to give a surprise to A. I would be landing in Bangalore at 5:00 PM. After landing I would directly go to his office and wait for him outside. I smiled thinking about the look on A's face when he sees me.

Finally, after an impatient wait, Friday arrived. A had no idea what I was up to. I left office early that day and directly went to the airport and boarded the flight to Bangalore. I landed at Bangalore at 5:00 PM and took a cab to A's office. It was not difficult to locate his office as it was a well known land mark.
I got down near his office and saw a cafe just opposite to it. I entered it and called A.
 "Hello Princess".
 "Hey was sup? Busy?"
"Nope almost done. Will be leaving in a few minutes."
"Ohkay..would you please care to come to the cafe opposite to your office?"
"What?? Are you here in Bangalore??"
"Yes I am here. Now come soon. I am dying to meet you"
"I will kill you if this is a joke"
"Ha-ha..no need for that. I am really here. Can’t wait to see you. Come soon"

He immediately disconnected the call saying that he will be there in a few minutes.  After about 5 minutes of wait which felt like an eternity, A entered the cafe. The minute he spotted me, the expression on his face changed from disbelief to pure elation. He started moving towards me and I got up from my seat. Without minding the crowd, he just came near me and lifted me off my feet, all the while thanking me for coming. He finally put me down and we hugged like there’s no tomorrow. There was a big gang of college goers in the cafe and they all started clapping looking at us. It was then we realized that we were in a public place. We just drew apart and left the cafe. 
We came out side and A held my hand and said "Thank you sooo much for coming princess. You have no idea how happy I am". "I know A. The distance between us was killing me. So I just thought of giving you a surprise. So here I am". "That is why I love you so much. So, where do you want to go now Princess?”
"Wherever you wanna take me"

It was a glorious evening. The sun was just setting and it cast a heavenly orange glow everywhere. We got into his car. I had no idea where he was taking me and it didn't matter as long as I was with him. We just drove for an hour, talking all the time. Then I realized we were going towards Nandi hills. After reaching at the top of the hill, he parked the car and we got down. The view from that spot was amazing. It was a full moon day and the moon was visible in its full glory. We just stood there gazing at the moon for a long time. He turned towards me and caressed my face. He tucked a stray strand of hair behind my ear and whispered  "You are looking beautiful". Suddenly without warning he kissed me. It was not a soft kiss, but a hungry passionate one.
The way he kissed me showed how much he was longing to see me. I kissed him back with equal fervor. At that moment, everything stood still. I just wanted to capture that moment and keep it close to my heart forever. I loved this man and I was really happy I made the decision to come here.

After a long time, we drew apart and stood gazing at each other.
We just sat there ,holding hands. I felt happy and peaceful to be with him. We had a yummy dinner at a road side dhaba. Finally it was time for me to leave. He came to drop me at the airport. We said our good byes and I tried hard to hide my tears. I recalled everything while sitting in the flight and thought that this was a perfect date. Nothing extravagant, but still very special and I would cherish it forever.











Thursday, October 17, 2013

TOUCH Thursdays No.3

I want a man who would Trust me (even when I say that the earth is square and not round)

I want a man who is an Optimist who makes every thorny path feel like a bed of roses (and look at the brighter side of the things even when I hit his BMW to a tree)

I want a man who would Understand my emotional outbursts and my moodiness (and brings me chocolates even when I call him a lousy, good for nothing, lazy bum when I am PMSing ;-))

I want a man who is Chivalrous, you know the kind who pays the bill or opens the door for you(and does the dishes and cook a gourmet meal for you occasionally)

I want a man who is Humorous and makes me laugh till my stomach aches

I want my  man to TOUCH my soul and make my heart sing (by looking at all the diamonds that he has bought me)

I am sorry if the above statements are full of cliches. but this pretty much sums up what I want in a man ;-)

Friday, October 11, 2013

An open letter to all the extroverts in the world!

"Why are you so quiet all the time?"
"Why are you so shy?"
"Why dont you mingle with others?"
"Why dont you attend parties?"

If I hear these questions once again in my life, I am literally gonna punch that person in the face. Really, I am that frustrated.

So heres the deal people. Yes I am an INTROVERT and yes I dont like to come out of my shell and no I dont like small talks or any kind of meaningless banter. Parties tire me out and you have my attention as long as you are making sense. otherwise its just @#?§¥€ in my head.

There, I said it and its off my chest now.  I am in the rant mode right now, but I cant help it. A stupid comment from a colleague made me take the anger out here.

Why are people so prejudiced about us. Why dont they just leave us alone in our own little world? Why the urge to forcibly convert us into extroverts? Cant they see we are perfectly happy being like this, with our books and our own closed circle of a few like minded friends?

It is high time everybody realized that introversion is not a disease and there is nothing to be ashamed  of about it. Now I have accepted this personality trait of mine and completely happy about it. I know I am special in my own introverted way:-)

Thursday, October 10, 2013

India



Hey Mark,

So you are planning to visit India. Good choice!

First of all, let me warn you that as soon as you land in India you will be greeted with utter chaos. All the smells around, the sea of people, the sheer colors everywhere, the traffic, will all be an assault to your senses. I am not telling all this to scare you my friend, but that is exactly the beauty of this place.

We the people of India, find happiness in the chaos and that is how we are wired. We need a whole bunch of our loved ones around us all the time, no matter what the situation is, be it a festival, a funeral, a wedding just about anything, really!

As for the kind of places you want to visit, you name it we have it. If you are interested in snow covered mountains, visit the himalayas. If you feel like spending your time lazing on a beautiful beach, visit Goa. If you feel lilke taking a camel ride in a desert, visit Rajasthan. If you are a lover of architecture, visit the beautiful temples in South India. As I said, you name it we have it.

I would like to thank you for the compliments you gave to the Indian Women, couldn't agree more with you. We are all that and much more.

So all the best and hope you have a great time in India!